What is black tie attire? Wedding experts explain (2024)

What is black tie? | What should you wear? | Colors that work best | Outfit inspiration | How to accessorize | Accessory inspiration | How we chose | Meet the experts

As suckers for romance, we're always excited to find a wedding invitation in our mailbox. But that joy can quickly turn into confusion when it comes time to interpret the dress code.

With wedding season on the horizon, the Shop TODAY team enlisted the help of experts to decipher some of the most common dress codes. Up first, we're exploring what the term "black tie" really means and sharing some gorgeous picks that won't break your budget.

So you got invited to a black tie wedding, huh? Fancy! According to The Knot's executive editor Lauren Kay, this is the second most formal wedding dress code (after white tie).

"There is little room for interpretation. Traditionally a black tie wedding takes place after 5:30 p.m., necessitating evening attire like a tuxedo or long gown. It's fancy and you can’t really be too overdressed (just don’t wear a floor-length white gown)," she says.

Wondering how fancy you should dress for a black tie soirée? Now's the time to go all out!

"Traditionally it has meant a long gown and tuxedo, however today it really means fancy and festive. Look and feel your best and bring the glamour to your comfort level. A tailored suit, glam dress or classy jumpsuit can always be accessorized to fit the black tie dress code," Emily Forrest, Zola's former director of communications, suggests.

If you don't regularly attend formal parties, black tie weddings offer a fun chance to dress to the nines (think an award show or the Met Gala). Here's a quick fashion cheat sheet to get you started:

• Floor-length gowns are the most popular choice: "[A] black tie dress code for women translates to [a] floor-length gown, but it’s not your only option. More modern black tie dress codes have relaxed this rule a bit. A tea-length dress that hits mid-calf is acceptable, as is a midi dress with a fancy co*cktail vibe," Kay says.
• Dresses aren't your only option: "I'm a very big fan of a jumpsuit or a pants look. Dresses are not required in modern day wedding etiquette by any standard. It's more about the feeling and vibe of the look!" Forrest tells us.
• Consider the material: Steer away from casual materials (denim, seersucker) and gravitate towards chiffon, silk, organza and crepe. "Beading is another excellent choice, as are embossed fabrics and sequins. Just remember, you’re going to a wedding — not a club," Kay adds.

The only real color that's off-limits as a wedding guest is white, but there are some color schemes that work best for black tie weddings.

"Most guests will stick to darker hues like burgundy, black, navy and gray. Jewel tones and metallics are also popular for floor-length gowns or specialty dinner jackets," Kay mentions.

Midi Slip Dress

Midi Slip Dress

$

25.00

What we like

• Affordable
• Versatile

Something to note

• Has a slit and a low neck

Colorways: Nine | Sizes: XS-4X | Material: Recycled polyester

Associate editor Sierra Hoeger is a super fan of this adorable midi slip dress. “I bought this last fall and it’s always my go-to for a fancy night out! I have a couple of weddings this year that I’m contemplating wearing it to, because it works so well on its own but also when paired with a turtleneck and tights, too.”

Louna Cowl Neck Midi Dress

Sizes: XXS-XXL | Materials: Polyester

Associate editor Shannon Garlin says she has been using Rent the Runway for formal events for over a decade. “It’s really saves me so much money for dresses I won’t have the opportunity to wear again. The service has so many elegant options from top designers and I love that they’ll send you two sizes just in case one doesn’t fit right,” says Garlin.

This Louna midi dress features a flattering hourglass silhouette and comes in sizes XXS-XXL to fit a variety of shapes and sizes. It is only $35 for a one-time rental so you’ll have plenty of money left over to splurge on accessories.

Venus Plunging Back Long Dress

Colorways: Two | Sizes: XS-XL | Materials: Polyester, spandex

We're getting royalty vibes from this slinky yet elegant gown. It's all business in the front with a demure high neckline, but beautiful details abound in the back with a plunging side back and a metallic ring that cinches the gown at the waist. The budget-friendly style is available in sizes XS-XL in black and red.

Prettygarden Satin Mock Neck Dress

Summer Satin Sleeveless Mock Neck Dress

$

53.99

What we like

• Good thickness
• Versatile
• Super comfortable

Something to note

• May run small

Colorways: 30 | Sizes: S-XXL | Materials: Satin

Dreaming of a "Pretty in Pink" moment? Now's the time to show up in your fanciest vibrant frock. This satin dress features draping around the collarbone, a chic mock neck and a comfortable elastic waistband. But it's the stunning deep hue that's causing our heart to flutter the most.

Sleeveless V-Neck Evening co*cktail Dress

Sleeveless V-Neck Evening co*cktail Dress

$

59.99

$

65.99

Colorways: Nine | Sizes: S-XXL | Materials: Polyester, spandex

Look and feel your best in this chic dress. This floor-length gown is made of spandex for a stretchy, comfortable fit and has a side slip, to help you avoid tripping on the dance floor.

Colorways: Six | Sizes: 0-16 | Material: Polyester

There's no doubt you'll feel like royalty in this elegant dress that features a sweetheart neckline, asymmetrical hemline and adjustable straps for desired fit. This midi dress comes in six different hues and has a near-perfect rating on the brand's website.

Club L London Kary One Shoulder Maxi Dress

Colorways: Three | Sizes: 0-16 | Materials: Polyester, elastane

Ruched detailing lends plenty of visual appeal to this asymmetrical maxi dress that’s sure to turn heads. Available in three colors and sizes 0-16, the affordable style is made of a stretchy jersey material and even features a side slit.

Lulus In Love Forever Satin Maxi Dress

Colorways: Two | Sizes: XS-XL | Material: Polyester

A ruffled high-low hem lends this maxi dress an irresistibly flirty vibe. Available in mustard yellow and navy blue, the satin stunner also has statement detail in the form of a lace-up back. It's particularly perfect if you plan to bust a move on the dance floor!

Elliatt Miley Ruched Dress

Miley Ruched Dress

$

98.00

What we like

• Fast shipping
• Reliable customer service
• Variety of options

Something to note

• May run small
• Certain sizes can be sold out

Colorways: Two | Sizes: XS-XL | Materials: Polyester

Senior partnerships editor Francesca Cocchi Zabloudil has a subscription to Nuuly and has rented at least a dozen wedding guest dresses so far. “For very formal events in particular I prefer renting, because A. fancy dresses and gowns can be pricey and B. if I purchased something I likely wouldn’t wear it again.”

“To narrow down all the options available on Nuuly, I filter by brands I know I like (and know how their sizing runs). Elliatt and Hutch are two of my favorites! I also rely heavily on reviews with photos,” she shares.

Gigi Convertible Jumpsuit

Colorways: 37 | Sizes: XS-3X | Material: Polyester

Like to have options? A convertible jumpsuit could be your fashion soulmate for a black tie wedding. This one can be worn in six different ways and has a universally flattering sweetheart neckline. The fancy chiffon style comes in a bunch of colors and sizes up to 3X.

Azazie One Shoulder Chiffon Floor-Length Dress

Colorways: 69 | Sizes: A0-A30 | Material: Chiffon

We could totally see ourselves rocking this dreamy chiffon gown and feeling like we're floating on air. The ethereal style comes in multiple colors, including plenty of jewel tone hues that are ideal for a black tie celebration, and we're seriously falling for the delicate cascading ruffles.

Colorways: Two | Sizes: 14-32 | Materials: Polyester

Feel confident in this satin dress that includes a surplice neckline and puff sleeves with elastic cuffs. This flirty frock comes in two hues and sizes 14-32 for a more inclusive fit. Complete the look with a pair of nude heels and sparkly clutch for the ultimate wedding guest outfit.

Off-the-Shoulder Cap Sleeve Floral Lace Mermaid Gown

$

159.00

What we like

• Elegant style
• Great quality

Something to note

• May run small

Colorways: Six | Sizes: 6-18 | Materials: Polyester, spandex

Can't wait to rock your fabulous red carpet-worthy ensemble? Black tie weddings call for glamour and this mermaid gown certainly serves it up. The off-the-shoulder cap sleeve design comes in six colors and has a gorgeous sheen, elegant lace and a stunning silhouette that hugs curves in all the right places.

Ready to add the finishing touches to your formal ensemble? Don't forget the accessories!

"Accessories are the place to add personality to your look and have more relaxed 'rules' when it comes to the black tie dress code. Given the elegance of black tie, stick to jewelry that has a more refined feel. You can’t go wrong with pearls or diamonds," Kay suggests. "Opt for a chic clutch or a small embellished bag. Heels are most common [for wedding guest shoes], but a dressy flat sandal is a great option too."

Rhinestone Beads Collar Necklace

Rhinestone Beads Collar Necklace

$

14.90

What we like

• Nice statement piece
• Comfortable
• Stylish

Something to note

• May be heavy on neck

Colorways: Eight | Material: Crystal-metal

There's nothing like a statement necklace to help you stand out amongst a crowd. Shine bright like a diamond with this colorful crystal choker that has over 1,600 verified five-star ratings on Amazon.

"This necklace was comfortable to wear, not too heavy but a nice weight to it. The colors and sparkle were great. My dress was simple so needed a statement piece. The price point was good, especially for the value and quality. Lots of compliments," said one satisfied Amazon customer.

Isaac Westman Pearl Stud Earrings

Pearl Stud Earrings

$

14.99

What we like

• Stylish
• nickel-free

Something to note

• Earring stem may be crooked

Size options: 6-9 mm | Material: Pearl

Sometimes, all it takes is a classic accessory to complete your look and these pearl studs are certainly vying for our attention. The classy earrings are made of nickel-free metal and would look fabulous with an updo or half 'do.

Azazie Chiffon Shawl

Colorways: 40 | Size: One size | Material: Chiffon

Whether you're attending a wedding up North or plan on partying well into the night, this chiffon shawl will provide a little added warmth. This chiffon piece comes in a whopping 40 hues, so you'll be sure to find one that matches your dress.

"I really like this shawl and it matches perfect with my dress. I’m sure I’ll be glad I bought it with the cool October evenings," said one five-star reviewer on the brand's website.

Dream Pairs Annee Block Heels

Annee Block Heels

$

34.49

$

47.99

What we like

• Well-made
• Comfortable
• Stylish

Something to note

• May run big

Colorways: 20 | Sizes: 5-11 | Materials: Leather, suede, rubber

Looking for a sensible, yet stylish pair of heels that will keep your feet comfortable all evening long? These pointed toe shoes feature a latex insole that conforms to the shape of your foot for extra cushioning. These chunky heels come in 20 hues and have over 11,000 verified five-star ratings on Amazon.

Gunne Sax by Jessica McClintock Pleated Satin Convertible Clutch

Pleated Satin Convertible Clutch

$

35.00

What we like

• Shoulder strap
• Slip pocket

Something to note

• May be smaller than expected

Colorways: Four | Size: 4-by-10-by-11.5 inches | Materials: Satin, metal

An evening bag is an essential for a black tie wedding, but it's not worth breaking your budget on something pricey if you're not going to wear it all that often. That's why we're fans of this affordable style that comes in four colors. The pleated satin exterior adds a touch of class and the convertible style makes it a convenient option you can wear a few ways.

Birdy Grey Limoge Crystal Teardrop Earrings

Material: Limoge

Add a little bling to your formal outfit with these Limoge long crystal drop earrings from Birdy Grey. These 14K gold-plated earrings are hypoallergenic and made from recycled materials.

Tiana Designs Beaded Clutch

Beaded Clutch

$

98.00

What we like

• Interior wall pocket
• Classy

Something to note

• May be smaller than expected

Colorways: Three | Dimensions: 9.25-by-2.5 inches | Material: Beaded

This beaded clutch features an interior wall pocket and zip-closure to safely store all your makeup essentials, from lipstick to mascara. It comes in three classic shades and will surely spruce up your wedding (guest) wardrobe.

Rockport Women's Tabitha Two-Strap Heeled Sandal

Two-Strap Heeled Sandal

$

107.13

$

109.95

What we like

• Moderate arch support
• Comfortable

Something to note

• May not fit narrow feet

Colorways: Three | Sizes: 5-11 | Materials: Leather, textile

We're just a wee bit obsessed with these heeled sandals that have pearl embellishments. The block heels and cushioned footbed emphasize comfort, while the stylish designs (they're also available in a bejeweled style) are appropriate for a fancy affair.

The Shop TODAY team rounded up the best formal dresses and accessories by enlisting the recommendations of wedding experts from The Knot and Zola. We also filtered our searches for top-rated products, read through hundreds of user reviews and chose a few editor favorites as well.

• Lauren Kay is the executive editor of The Knot and The Bump and is based in New York City. She previously spoke to Shop TODAY about gifts for your first wedding anniversary.
• Emily Forrest was Zola's former director of communications. She previously spoke to Shop TODAY about gifts for your 10th wedding anniversary and how to shop for the perfect present for your bridesmaids.